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The Desire Architecture Check
Most relationship friction comes from assuming desire is a single switch. In reality, human arousal runs on two independent circuits: an Accelerator (what sparks interest) and a Brake (what shuts it down when cortisol, routine, or pressure intrude). Answer five quick questions to map yours.
01 / 05 · Timing of Desire
How does wanting sex usually show up for you?
02 / 05 · The 10:00 PM Transition
When you've had a stressful, high-cortisol day, what does sex feel like?
03 / 05 · Novelty vs. Familiarity
What reliably wakes up your attention in a long-term dynamic?
04 / 05 · Mental Brakes
What kills the mood fastest once touch has already started?
05 / 05 · Communication Style
How do you prefer to initiate or negotiate what happens in bed?
Your Desire Profile
Spontaneous · High-Accelerator
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The Yes / Curious / Pass Intimacy Inventory
Saying what you want out loud in the middle of the bedroom is hard; reacting to a menu is easy. Mark each scenario below as Yes (Green Light), Curious (Yellow Light — open to trying with the right mood and conversation), or Pass. Your summary card below automatically hides every Pass so you only share what excites you.
Your Private Conversation Card
Green & Yellow Lights
Yes · Ready Anytime (0)
Curious · Let's Talk First (0)
Guides Matched to What You Marked "Yes" or "Curious"